I changed the intro from “a preference for order” to “a need for order”. Too often a choice for order seems to come not from a conscious choice, but a deep psychological need. This doesn’t mean we don’t have a choice. We make choices based on our understanding; better understanding leads to better choices.
I see the need for order in:
Abused spouses staying with their abuser.
The explanation “It’s always been done this way”.
Avoiding a small loss instead of pursuing a large gain.
More pain from having a loved one that is missing than being dead.
Ignoring physical evidence that contradicts belief. (Religion yes, but law enforcement as well.)
The creation of myths to explain things not understood, e.g. the weather.
The tendency to resist change.
Some people are natural risk-takers, but these people stand out because they are the exceptions.
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